Basically, WHD was written for alpha females who want to date alpha males.

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He’s kind, attentive and affectionate- when we’re together.

He communicates with me daily, mostly through text message, to which I always respond warmly.

My question: We’re texting everyday, but he’ll wait FOREVER, (in actuality, 5-7 days) before asking to see me again. Is this a downside of dating a typical beta (i.e., no initiative) or is he just not that interested in me?

It can be a tough pill to swallow at times, but I appreciate your no-nonsense advice.

I’ve had to learn the hard way, that my “go-getter” attitude does not translate well in the dating world.

Not doing anything in the beginning stages of dating tends to drive me crazy.

I’ve been dating a beta-male for about a month and a half.

Do I continue to utilize patience or should I move on?

Dear Michelle, Thanks for reading “Why He Disappeared – The Smart, Strong, Successful Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever”.

Glad it turned on a few light bulbs in helping you realize how a few of your behaviors have been ineffective in forging a relationship with a man.

But I have to say that if I had to write the whole thing again, I would have taken a few pages to put in a caveat: This advice doesn’t work for every single woman in every single situation with every single guy.